The Cure For Nudity

Emotional Empowerment

The Cure For Nudity, Cantonese

By on July 14, 2016

You absolutely have to love the world that we live in with verbal autocorrect. Although what I intended, The Cure for Nudity continues and has came out quite differently. Apparently, he will believe the cure for nudity is Cantonese. In some cases, I inclined to agree. However, one’s ability to laugh at silly things like this certain helps one understand that transparency in your own life share with others can be quite fun.

As I’ve explained in previous blogs the common thread that strings through the cure for nudity is one’s ability to strip back the things that made us put on masks and striving for more transparency in one’s life.

This very simple but somewhat complicated concept for some to recognize and further has given me the greatest peace and connection with people around. It’s funny to me how often people are thinking what you’re thinking but never have the courage to say it out loud.

I believe it’s important to qualify my statement when I say that all things said out loud don’t necessarily need to be said. I’m talking about being able to discriminate between good humor and fun and harmful file irritable attitudes and language that could be harmful to others and relationships around you.

Some people have the ability to get away with jokes in near the red line it to the point where it’s nearly uncomfortable and then are able to pull back and make it extremely comfortable and fun. I would not suggest trying this level of comedic behavior until you’ve done a few basic knock knock jokes in relationships.

Being able to recognize opportunities to be a standard bearer are very important. This lesson for me came late in life and I had to learn the hard way. Truth be known, I’ve probably had to learn it the hard way twenty five times. I remember learning the importance of understanding this basic principle of tempering what you say when you’re around others. In other words, as I have alluded to the cure for nudity is one’s ability to strip down those things that have been holding them back and becoming more transparent with our levels of communication to others and ourselves. The other side of that coin and that balance comes from one’s understanding that the information that you disseminate to others should be useful and non-harmful in any way. Only used to build others up and to create clear pathways of transparent communication between both parties.

Back to understanding those moments of Truth when you have an opportunity to be a standard-bearer for this style of living, I had to learn the hard way again. Although I am a huge proponent of being truthful and honest with people I remember in particular really a time at a local retail shop where one other retailer that we shared space with was extremely rude. This was not the first occasion at this person’s attitude came between me and my Air Conditioning repair business owned by our family. I finally had enough and laid into her herbal letting her know exactly what I thought about her. My fifteen-year-old son was within earshot and he told me later that he was excited that I told her what I did and she had it coming to her. I recall awkwardly agree nervously shaking my head and putting it down out of shape. Because when she didn’t see that I did see was someone standing fifty feet away that you knew me as a child standing there with their parents while I ranted at this woman and probably look like a madman.

The fact of the matter is this was a very clear example of a time that I had an opportunity to do something different in effect and outcome differently. This person since that experience has not seen me nor has ran into me. Although we have had a very close relationship I have no doubt that that the experience of that retail shop that day will be the very first thing she thinks about when she sees me next. If not for the simple reason of making sure that you’re walking lightly and having lightfoot people that are around you each day it’s just good business practice not to leave that out in front of people each day.

Now although I am very difficult on myself, I am trying to set the example of what the cure for nudity is about. By living out there in a sea of 10 trillion web pages I can live with some anonymity. However, it’s the very basic principle of looking back at who you and becoming someone different today improved better and having the opposite effect that I have had at times.

Now for the positive side of the cure for nudity in the lesson that I had to learn. You see there’s two sides to every coin. Although my behavior has ended up sometimes having a negative effect it also has the opposite side of that coin is well.

If you plant something good you might get something great. Of course, what needs to be thought of is the nurturing that goes in along the way, and the deer eating that keeps that plant strong. Obviously a metaphor that works well with any amount of growth that you are seeking in our lives. The cure for nudity will be a beacon for taking away the things that impede our personal growth.

Stripping Down And Taking A Look In The Mirror

By on July 14, 2016

Recently a business relationship that I had ended in a way that I would have liked it to have been different. I guess that’s a fancy way of saying that the frustration of a business relationship gone South can’t change your feelings about working with others.

Without getting too specific and trying to respect the anonymity of others what I can say is this, this particular business deal went south simply because someone didn’t know how to honor their word. What I have inevitably learned about business is there are many variables and several ways of thinking when it comes to treating customers. The thing that really left me feeling completely exposed was the fact that after this relationship ended by then was left with the giant question what to do next. What to do next with a skill that I learned very quickly but yet hadn’t put everything together was very intimidating.

What I have inevitably learned about business is there are many variables and several ways of thinking when it comes to treating customers. The thing that really left me feeling completely exposed was the fact that after this relationship ended by then was left with the giant question what to do next. What to do next with a skill that I learned very quickly but yet hadn’t put everything together was very intimidating.

What I have simply learned about self-confidence and getting to the point where you’re ready to do something large and life is this. Strip away your inhibitions your frustrations and fears and invest in yourself. Sometimes jumping out of the airplane is the only thing that will assure your ultimate safety. Don’t go down with the plane. I don’t know why that sounds so good right now but the truth of the matter is life has shown me in these moments of trial and tribulation, that when life has you up against the wall that often you will surprise yourself with the ability to work through very complex situations and extraordinary pressures that most people would find very difficult. Although learning under this type of pressure might not be ideal for most, I find that this is the type of pressure that I’m most operate under success. Give me a week to get something done and I’ll wait

Although learning under this type of pressure might not be ideal for most, I find that this is the type of pressure that I’m most operate under success. Give me a week to get something done and I’ll wait till the last minute. Give me a minute to get something done and I’ll be done 59 seconds ago. This is truly an adventure that cannot lose for me. I will not fail in my attempt to close deals and move business forward. This cure for nudity is in every day focus on looking at the things that I don’t know assessing those things with real knowledge an assertion to learn and fill in the spaces. I hope for me that the cure for nudity is an inspiration to my daily living. Why daily doing the right thing by weeks and months and up into doing the right thing. recently a business relationship that I had and it in a way that I would have liked it to happen different. I guess that’s a fancy way of saying that the frustration of a business relationship gone self can’t ain’t your feelings about working with others.

No doubt making me feel like I had much to learn and no doubt quickly. I have found that much like in business your personal relationships and in life you need to be truly assessed from time to time. Being thrown into a situation like the one that I was tossed into can make one either crush or crush goals.

No doubt for me a daily living and dying out and looking at the things that are ugly about my life that need to be changed. Sometimes you need to take the clothes off your business soon and take a look at your whole body. Know what you don’t know. Sounds kind of crazy the bottom line is this if you’re the smartest person in the room you better go to another room. The cure for you to do for me this is not my business but also my personal life. I really hope both of those things keep it well balanced and grounded. Ultimately why I could focus on both spiritual and business that It ultimately keeps the right balance that I want in my life.

The Cure for Nudity is Laughter

By on June 21, 2016

One secret that I’ve learned in life so far is that laughter is a very strong medicine. In fact the Bible’s full of stories about laughter and joy.

In fact, there’s a couple of verses in the Bible that talk about laughter specifically being accurate like a medicine.

The cure for nudity comes when one can be self-deprecating and joke about the imperfections that we all have. I have found that the older that I get I’m becoming much more comfortable with making fun of myself. You see the truth is in order for you to be able to become secure you need to get over all of your insecurities. One of the things that has helped me immensely throughout my life has been the people around me. Having the right people around you that are joyful and fun can really bring up the quality of your life. Having those same people around you that understand how to keep you accountable is even better. You see sometimes life can get stuff that you can either sit there and shut down or just laugh about it. The fact of the matter is I’ve done so many stupid things in my life that just sharing it with other people just seems crazy sometimes. Now I’m not saying you open up every story or everything that you’ve ever done in your entire life. But I do believe it shows something about your ability to be a human being and connect when you can be very honest with other people. I have found that the cure for nudity is contagious. Meaning, if you’re able to be open honest and share something about yourself that is a bit vulnerable, other people will follow suit. This cure for nudity is something that is completely contagious and if you decide to be the Cure you will affect those around you positively. You see the truth is everyone wants to be honest but we don’t always get that opportunity, to be honest. As someone that was pre-programmed to give the right answer every time it ran across train to how life is sometimes. Things that I personally had to deal with his growing up in a home that was extremely religious and being predisposed again to give the answer that your family wanted to hear as opposed to what the truth is. Getting good with yourself and the cure for me is stripping oneself of all of those inhibitions that make us one online. Lion sounds terrible. However, the truth is more and more people each and every day to site a little lie that creates contention in their own lives. See your soul wants, to be honest, it once to bear everything in it wants to tell the truth. But we live in a world that really is typically not good for you. Showing weakness is never good for you. But, you need to be deprogrammed and reprogrammed. People in this world are good and they want to be good but by being a leader strip yourself of all of those inhibitions you open yourself up and create a spirit of cooperation and vulnerability that people will understand respect and react to.

My Mentor

By on June 21, 2016

Throughout your life it is important to meet people that can mentor you in the areas of their expertise. Don’t you go ask a juggler to teach you how to neuro-surgery. My aunt Pat that is now passed away was certainly the person that gave me more perspective on learning to get good with oneself. My aunt Pat was one that grew up during the generation of the sixties. In 1969 she was Upstate New York at Woodstock. One of the most laid-back and chill people I’ve ever met in my life taught me that it’s ok to not be ok. My aunt Pat was an amazing woman that understood people and more importantly her own self. I remember the day that she said something that made a very large impact on my life. It seems simple funny and a little bit quirky. Let me briefly share the story with you. Aunt Pat was cut from a totally different cloth than most people that I know. My mother was someone that enjoys being stressed out most of the time. I know it sounds crazy but I’ve said this before to some of my closest friends I’m not happy if you have more things to complain about than me. I jokingly say that to remind myself how important it is to not be so focused on the things that drive us a little bit nuts. You see my mom is somebody that’s a very uptight individual and she has a very difficult I’m rolling with the punches in life. My aunt Pat to get back to the story came over to my mom’s house one day and gave her a brand new goldfish. My mom asked her why she was giving her this goldfish and she told her that she needed to have something to talk to you in for out all of her anger and frustration. You see my aunt Pat taught me that it’s important to be able to get that out of your system. That frustration that his pent-up in all of us needs to be exercised in a healthy way. My aunt Pat dropped off this goldfish to my mom and she told her that you’re going to name this goldfish FUCK…..

Now I want you and told you it sounded a little bit crazy quirky and weird. And I’m sure that didn’t disappoint. A grown woman taking another grown woman if fish that’s alive in a bag and naming it well what she named it. The truth of the matter was at the point that she was trying to make was you’ve got to be able to be upset and get it out of your system so you don’t take it out on others. My aunt Pat explained in only the way that she could you need it just tell the fish hey f*** how was your day get that out of your system so it doesn’t bind you up emotionally and spiritually. No I don’t know really how I feel about calling the fish book every day of your life that could get a little complicated around your kids. But I suppose there really is no other cure for nudity when it comes to self reflection other than peeling back the layers and exposing what you have a difficult time dealing with. You see my mom had a very difficult time and still does have a very difficult time of getting right down to the brass tacks of life. But when you don’t waste time when you’re honest about how you feel and when you just say what’s on your mind life has a tendency to be much easier. This is a very simple object lesson and I hope somebody gets something out of this. I’m not a huge advocate of using Angry Words, however the point that she made really did ReSound in my own heart. If you’re struggling with anger and frustration and emotions that come from some place that you don’t really recognize. It’s important to take a very serious calculated approach to your own life and start peeling back the layers so you can get completely naked emotionally. Again to get back to the whole subject matter of what we’re discussing comma the cure for nakedness is disrobing all of the armor that we placed on ourselves and all of the things that repel others and taking an account of oneself. You see you won’t feel so naked when you’re honest about who you are when you speak your truth.